I have often thought that I could have a great vacation if I could be a (blank: fill in your own prejudice here) for a week. I don’t think I would want to be this for more than a week because I might grow into it and never leave. But consider the short term relief of being a (blank).

As a (blank) is never wrong, there would be no self recriminations or doubts about your behavior, thoughts, or feelings. You would be free of concern for other’s feelings. It would naturally be their fault if you did anything that harms them in mind, body, or soul. They should have known better. It would be perfectly correct to blame others for things I may have done or caused because a (blank) has no faults. There would be no need for gratitude because a (blank) deserves every good or blessing that comes as a right and privilege of being who/what he/she/it is.

Consider the opposite. Think about how much time you are consumed in concern for others. Don’t count the concern you have for your own needs because that is the human condition. Think about the concern you have that impacts others, whether you’ve helped or harmed, and to what degree. Consider the amount of energy you spend going out of your way for others. Consider the time you take caring for others in priority over your own needs. These considerations provide a measure of how far you have moved away from being a (blank). It may actually reveal to you how much distress it would cause you to be a (blank) for a week even though you might want the rest.

I’ve decided I prefer my current frustrations over being a (blank) for a week. I prefer the little humility I might have over the ego a (blank) exudes. I have closeness in friendships and family that a (blank) will never attain. The rewards of the caring frustrations outweigh any possible benefit to being a (blank). I agree that love is more powerful and beneficial in all its inconveniences than selfishness could ever gain by its cruelties.